SUPPORTERS
You don’t have to be a survivor to change this. You just have to care enough to act.
THE HERO’S JOURNEY
The men who experience domestic violence don’t just need a website. They need the people and systems around them to respond differently — to believe them, to protect them, to stop treating them as the problem.
That’s where you come in.
Whether you’re a friend who sees something wrong, a therapist sitting across from a man who can’t find the words, a police officer responding to a domestic call, or a lawmaker reviewing DV funding — you have the power to change the outcome for a man in crisis.
Every page in this section was built for a specific audience. Find yours below.
FIND YOUR ROLE
Friends & Family
You see something wrong. This page will help you understand what’s happening — and what he needs from you.
Mental Health Pros
You’re the one system that works for men. This page is about understanding why — and doing it even better.
Lawmakers
The data exists. The policy doesn’t. This page presents the evidence and a framework for closing the gap.
Clergy & Faith Leaders
He came to you because he trusts God. Make sure the advice you give him doesn’t keep him trapped.
DV Shelters & Services
You already do this work, but not for everyone — including the men your system was never built to serve.
Medical Professionals
You’ve see them in your emergency room, but they have cuts not bruises. Learn to recognize the signs.
Law Enforcement
You respond to domestic calls every shift. This page is about the ones you might be getting wrong.
Employers & HR
You may not know what he’s going home to — but you can build a workplace that supports him.
Researchers
Stats don’t lie. Learn how the old idea that men cannot be victims of IPV is a false narrative we need to address.
90% of male DV victims received no formal services at all. The system wasn’t built for them. You can help change that.
Join the Mission
We’re building what should have existed all along — evidence-based resources, training tools, and policy frameworks for everyone who works with male DV survivors.
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SYSTEMIC CHANGE
The System Doesn’t Change Itself
Every man in an abusive relationship is surrounded by people who could help — if they knew what they were looking at and what to do about it. You’re here because you want to be one of those people. Pick your page. Read it. And then do something with what you learn.
Silence isn’t strength — for him or for you.
All statistics on this page are sourced from federal government surveys or peer-reviewed, published research. Full citations are available on our References page. We encourage independent verification of every number presented here.